Highlights From The Comments On "Sorry You Feel That Way"
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↳ In Defense Of "I'm Sorry You Feel That Way" — Essay · Aug 2024
Summary
Highlights companion to 'Sorry You Feel That Way,' curating the comment debate over whether the phrase is a genuine sympathy expression or a hostile non-apology. Threads: 'sorry' as sorrow vs contrition (and the etymological note that it's actually sore+y, not from 'sorrow'); the 'hyperstitious slur cascade' now past ~70%; the affirmative-consent analogy for the illegible cost of 'legible' replacement phrases no real human would say; and why apologizing-for-offense crosses from sympathy into fault-admission.
Why this score
Quality 62 · Strong. Strong-floor: a modest but thoughtful Highlights companion with a couple of genuinely good bits (the hyperstitious-slur-cascade framing, the illegible-cost-of-legible-phrases point); curation-heavy and light, so bottom of Strong.
Claude’s paradigm shift 35 · Slight. Slight: a comment roundup; little novelty of its own.
Real-world impact 1 · Negligible. Negligible/within-community: a discourse-norms discussion with no material effect.